What is a common characteristic of insecure ambivalent/resistant attachment?

Insecure ambivalent/resistant attachment is characterized by high levels of anxiety and resistance in the child. This attachment style typically arises from inconsistent and unpredictable responses from caregivers. Children with this attachment often display distress when separated from their primary caregiver, but when the caregiver returns, they may both seek comfort and resist it by showing anger or ambivalence.

This behavior indicates a deep-seated anxiety regarding the caregiver's availability and responsiveness, leading to confusion in seeking comfort. The presence of resistance alongside anxiety signifies that the child is uncertain whether their emotional needs will be met, given their experience of inconsistency. This contrasts with other attachment styles, where children may be indifferent, ease of separation, or maintain consistently positive communications with their caregivers. Therefore, the hallmark of insecure ambivalent/resistant attachment is indeed the combination of high anxiety and the resistant behaviors exhibited toward the caregiver.